on poetry & being human

on poetry & being human

Share this post

on poetry & being human
on poetry & being human
pride month: a shopping guide!

pride month: a shopping guide!

& quotations, tweets, resources, etc.

Despy Boutris's avatar
Despy Boutris
Jun 02, 2022
∙ Paid

Share this post

on poetry & being human
on poetry & being human
pride month: a shopping guide!
Share

Happy June!

Also known as officially Pride Month so, from today until 6/30, if any hiring committees reject my application, I’m calling it homophobia.1

As a creative person myself—and someone who tries to keep up with really great queer-owned businesses, I thought I’d offer a little ~Pride Month shopping guide~ to anyone out there, like me, likes to consume.

Now is a better time than ever to buy a gift for yourself or loved one & support a LGBTQ+ artist/writer at the same time. Yay!

So here’s what I have for you today:

  • The gift guide

  • Quotations

  • Tweets

  • Resources for paying subscribers

Onward!


THE PRIDE GUIDE

To wear:

As you already know, I have a few ~creative endeavors~ myself.

I’ve thoroughly been enjoying resurrecting old t-shirt graphics as well as creating new ones.

You’ve heard of I ♥ NY—now get ready for:

  • I ♥ BEING GAY

  • I ♥ TRANS PEOPLE

  • I ♥ HOT GIRLS

& here are some other styles you might like:

  • For the high femme who wants girls to know she’s gay

  • For the self-described dyke

  • For the poet

  • For the ally

  • For the bookworm

  • For the newly out bisexual

  • For the athlete

  • For the But I’m a Cheerleader fan

  • For the video gamer

  • For the Coke lover

  • For the vintage lover

Anyways, here are some pics:

dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts
dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts

In terms of shirts, I also highly recommend The Peach Fuzz.

Elizabeth has some really wonderful queer gear.

Being the long-time fan that I am, here’s me wearing some!

_thepeachfuzz
A post shared by The Peach Fuzz (@_thepeachfuzz)
_thepeachfuzz
A post shared by The Peach Fuzz (@_thepeachfuzz)
_thepeachfuzz
A post shared by The Peach Fuzz (@_thepeachfuzz)
_thepeachfuzz
A post shared by The Peach Fuzz (@_thepeachfuzz)

Who else?

Alyssa Giannini makes very good buttons.

shop here

I’ve been lusting for ages over this shirt.

Iconic sweatshirt for everyone who was dressed in GAP as a child.

My friend Mars makes some great trans pride t-shirts.

Girl of Swords’ t-shirts are iconic & I think I’m going to buy about five tonight. (Note: 15% off with code PRIDE22.)

ToxicFemme666 has some great shirts, too.

I want this immediately.


LGBTQ+ jewelry:

  • These trans earrings (!!!) by Leo Mateus (or this trans necklace)

  • A custom beaded necklace (scroll thru here for some examples)

  • This button

  • This necklace


For parents:

  • This Keith Haring kids chair


For lovers:

  • This card

  • Or this one


For the home:

I love the ceramics that Sweeney Brown makes. I bought a few spoon-rests for my mom last Christmas!

Here are a few cute mugs they designed—

they’re really pretty so they could also just serve as home decor.

  • Plant Daddy mug

  • Open Up mug

  • It’s Okay to Feel Stuff mug

Or you can snag some wall art:

  • I designed this Sappho print ($9 each)

dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts
  • I make hand-cut collages that are one-of-a-kind (all under $15)

  • Here’s a fun trans fairy print by Frances Cannon

  • This lesbian Warhol print

  • This lesbian print by SapphicMagicDesigns

  • This very gay print

Trans candles! Omg!:

  • Here

  • And here


For readers:

(That’s all of you!)

  • 5 new to lightly-used gay books for $30

  • This gay-ass zine!

  • Poems About Lesbian Sex

  • Lust Empire

  • My gay chapbook

dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts
  • This twink zine

  • Radical Softness as a Boundless Form of Resistance Reader

dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts
  • Stonewall was a Riot Against Police Brutality

  • Self-Portrait as Ricochet

  • On Heaven & Holiness

dbouts
A post shared by @dbouts

Okay, that’s it for today’s shopping guide.

Maybe I’ll do another one soon. I really love to promote artists’ work when I can.


Quotations:

Once I was beautiful. Now I am myself.

-Anne Sexton, “You, Doctor Martin”


[At the Museum of Death, we felt] not enjoyment, but something surely close, something rotting in our sleeves, a desire to witness what could become of our own skin. The first images made my mouth go dry, but then—a husk, a coal-lipped quiet, the way your fingers prune after sitting in the bath for too long.

-Sofia Sears, “Anatomy of a Girl-Poet”


Once my parents wanted to gild me, jar me. Once someone told me I mattered to them and I believed it.

-Sofia Sears


Can our language give too much, can we describe loss in too many words, too graphic, too true?

-Sofia Sears


Us girl-poets, in particular, must be suicidal to be remembered at all.

-Sofia Sears


Poetry believes in living, in the grit-your-teeth and sharpen-your-skin worth of it. It reveals, however minute, a want to be known, to be believed.

-Sofia Sears


I can’t touch people without terror in my throat. I can give myself in universal, unspecific ways, but touching anyone with just my hands seems like an unhinging of some sturdy, bone-walled house I’ve spent my whole life building.

-Sofia Sears


Tweets:

Twitter avatar for @mabbylmao
maddy fellows @mabbylmao
as a queer teenager, i was bullied for dating a girl. they called me a “carpet muncher.” that’s why this pride month i’m partnering with Stanley Steemer the Carpet Cleaner—
5:09 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
144,431Likes11,192Retweets
Twitter avatar for @meaghano
Meaghan O'Connell @meaghano
who's gonna tell them
Image
3:26 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
62,784Likes7,625Retweets
Twitter avatar for @D_Kuehn
Daniel Kuehn @D_Kuehn
Thinking about this amazing tweet this morning
Image
2:13 PM ∙ Jun 2, 2022
39,474Likes2,472Retweets
Twitter avatar for @sweatermuppet
silas denver 🛸 @sweatermuppet
happy pride month! are you doing your part?
in all caps & underlined is the text the world will always need more transsexuals. below that in another font, all caps but not underlined, is the text there is room enough for everyone. below that, titled shift & in a font that looks like it was written with a fat marker, all caps, is the text that includes you! all the text is black with copy scanner lines, slight ink bleed, & a few paper creases. the background is white.
12:23 PM ∙ Jun 2, 2022
394Likes167Retweets
Twitter avatar for @huntichon
jake @huntichon
pride month not going as planned might just have to collab with heterosexuality
11:59 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
291Likes22Retweets
Twitter avatar for @saulmalone
husky dave grohl @saulmalone
very weird to see people celebrating a verdict on here that's going to clearly make it harder for victims of abuse to hold their abusers accountable in court without being threatened with defamation
7:38 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
31,287Likes4,209Retweets
Twitter avatar for @itsdbouts
Despy Boutris @itsdbouts
regardless abt whether heard's claims are ~true~ i think it's rly important to acknowledge the terrifying precedent that this case sets 4 future lawsuits. every time some1 comes out abt abuse at the hands of someone powerful, he'll file a suit & force victim to "prove" said abuse
8:34 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
23Likes2Retweets
Twitter avatar for @allisongeroi
allison @allisongeroi
what do we, as a culture, have to do to kill QR code menus
10:47 PM ∙ May 31, 2022
293,797Likes31,153Retweets
Twitter avatar for @itsdbouts
Despy Boutris @itsdbouts
wanting something is so embarrassing. why must we have ambition. yikes @ the nightmare of knowing that not getting something i rly want might simply eliminate my will to live
9:56 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
20Likes4Retweets
Twitter avatar for @SchittsCreekOOC
out of context schitt’s creek @SchittsCreekOOC
Schitt’s Creek Ronnie’s Party. Johnny and Moira at Ronnie’s house. Johnny Rose speaking to Ronnie captioned “I have been very, very supportive of the LGBTQ community.”
Moira Rose to Johnny Rose captioned “Oh, John... John…”
Johnny Rose back to Moira captioned “Did I leave out a letter?”
Schitt’s Creek Ronnie’s Party. Johnny and Moira at Ronnie’s house. Johnny Rose speaking to Ronnie captioned “I have been very, very supportive of the LGBTQ community.”
Moira Rose to Johnny Rose captioned “Oh, John... John…”
Johnny Rose back to Moira captioned “Did I leave out a letter?”
Schitt’s Creek Ronnie’s Party. Johnny and Moira at Ronnie’s house. Johnny Rose speaking to Ronnie captioned “I have been very, very supportive of the LGBTQ community.”
Moira Rose to Johnny Rose captioned “Oh, John... John…”
Johnny Rose back to Moira captioned “Did I leave out a letter?”
4:32 PM ∙ Jun 1, 2022
631Likes80Retweets
Twitter avatar for @yurirando
frog "Joker's Secret" kosaric @yurirando
if you ever want to know why literature is what it is now, kurt vonnegut got $750 for his first short story in 1950. admittedly this was from Collier's, which I understand paid well, but nobody pays "buy a low-end new car with it and have enough left over for dinner" well anymore
7:23 PM ∙ May 31, 2022
306Likes33Retweets
Twitter avatar for @forcedmasc
neopussyboi @forcedmasc
think at a certain point we have to get at a point where being considered 'unfuckable' has to be responded to with something other than 'what are you talking about, some of us are very fuckable tyvm'
4:39 PM ∙ May 31, 2022
146Likes9Retweets
Twitter avatar for @Newsweek
Newsweek @Newsweek
Marjorie Taylor Greene predicts straight people will soon be extinct
newsweek.comMarjorie Taylor Greene predicts straight people will soon be extinctMarjorie Taylor Greene has previously been critical of the trans community and her latest comments have started to go viral on Twitter.
8:46 AM ∙ May 31, 2022
7,152Likes477Retweets

Resources for paying subscribers:

Keep reading with a 7-day free trial

Subscribe to on poetry & being human to keep reading this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.

Already a paid subscriber? Sign in
© 2025 Despy Boutris
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start writingGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture

Share